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luvbug00 wrote: Things between lars and i didn't work out. I'm back at my parents and we are DEVISTATED. Mya has cried herself to sleep. She can't stop talking about him. His parting with her was heartbreaking. I know this is a huge mistake on his part and i think he knows that too. It's his issues keeping him away. He finally said he was in love with me. too little too late. That would have solved so many problems for us. There is such uncertanty in this ending it's not final for me. I think when he gets his head cleared he'll see what a mistake this is.

luvmykids replied: I'm sorry to hear you and Mya are both having such a hard time I wish you the best, with or without Lars

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lovemy2 replied: I am sorry to hear that - sometimes the separation is a good thing - it will make you both realize for sure if it should be or not....hang in there -

Calimama replied: I'm so sorry sweetie.

amymom replied: Take care of yourself and Mya. Remember everyone is here for you.

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Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm so sorry to hear this!

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Sam & Abby's Mom replied: I'm sorry !

MoonMama replied: I'm so sorry Nadia!

CantWait replied: I'm so sorry Nadia.

Mommy2BAK replied: Oh I am so sorry that you and Mya are going through this, but you two are stong ladies and as long as you have each other the two of you can get through anything! Hang in there, and we are all here for you when you need us. Lars is making such a mistake!

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DillsMommy replied: Sorry to hear that.

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mummy2girls replied: im sorry((HUGS)) sometimes the seperation get the guy thinking he made a huge mistake! My dayhome mom was with a guy for a while and then he broke it off they were apart for 2 months and he decided he realized he made a huge mistake and missed hera nd the little boy. So they are now together and now living together and even talking marriage and kids now:)

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A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry sweetie!!

luvbug00 replied: Well i decided i couldn't accept this as final. I called and met with his mom last night. I told her that i understood her concern as a parent about our situation but that i love her son. That i want the best for him. She advised me to go talk to him again and so i did. last night we talked about everything. I told him that i felt it was a big mistake. We are still talking this threw and there is no deffinate answer but we know we each have some changes to make if we want this relationship to go right. It's funny becuase before i never felt really secure in his love for me and now that he said that he is in love with me i don't feel this insecure cloud over my head. Funny that a few simple words can change so much in a person. like i said there is more talking to do and i plan on fighting with all i have becuase i know that he and i could be a happy coupple.

holley79 replied: Whatever works, just make sure you think about what on again and off again can do to Mya.

mummy2girls replied:
I agree.. Make sure he wants what he says he does because you dont want to go backw ith him, move back in and get mya back into this and then boom break up again. That is hard of kids!!! if you get back together dont automatically move back in with him make sure this si what it is before you move mya back into it..