sad news...... - m/c mentioned

chloe&tysmommy wrote: Well, last night I started to bleed, it was light at first and I wasn't too worried but then it started to get a lot heavier and darker. I had no cramps or pain or anything so I was still unsure but I knew this wasn't normal.
So, this morning I went to see the doctor and I took a preg test and it was negative ( I had taken a preg test last week there and it was pos) so he told me that if I'm bleeding that heavy that I'm miscarring right now!

I know when you miscarry its for a reason but I'm so depressed! I had such an easy pregnancy the first time with absolutely no complications and so I thought I would be ok this time....I was only maybe a month preg. he said.

How long does it take to fully 'clean' out? Has anyone gone through a m/c and what exactly happens- do you just bleed? and how long did you wait to try again?

Heather replied: Oh sweetie! I am so sorry! How heart breaking! I haven't had a miscarriage, but you are right there is a reason. I have heard that you bleed and you cramp a lot during a miscarriage...and I bet because it is early, you can start trying anytime. You are in my thoughts.

jcc64 replied: So very very sorry for your loss. I had a m/c a few monthes before becoming pg with my daughter (who turns 1 tomorrow), and it was a pretty scary time for me. I bled a lot, and for a long time (a few weeks). I guess the 2 ways to m/c are naturally (as I did), or with a minor surgical procedure called a d and c if your body doesn't finish the job completely. I had to keep taking blood tests to monitor the decline of pregnancy hormones, and had they not completely disappeared, I would have had to have the d and c. I'm sure your dr will monitor you closely. In the meantime, try to take it easy physically.
You might want to visit a board exclusively dedicated to loss in pregnancy. Check out ivillage, I think they have some there. Best of luck.
Jeanne

Kirstenmumof3 replied: I'm so sorry you are going through this!

supermom replied: Hun, I am so sorry for you

When I miscarried I was a bit farther along than you, so they admitted me to the hospital and did a D and C - which I don't know if they will do with you as you are not as far along.........do take it easy and ask your Doc if there is anything special that you need to do/know or to watch for. And know that you are in our thoughts and prayers!

maliksmommy replied: I am so sorry for your loss We are all here for you when you need a shoulder to cry on.

Hillbilly Housewife replied: I'm sorry to hear that...Be strong!

MomToMany replied: Lots of hugs for you! I'm so sorry you are going through this! I haven't had a miscarriage before, so I can't help you with any info. I just want to tell you that I'm thinking about you, and you'll be in my thoughts!

More hugs for you!



Mollie

mckayleesmom replied: Im so sorry. You poor thing. Big Giant hugs to you. . I Miscarried before Mckaylee and I hardly bled at all and I never had cramping. I guess some people are just different. I was never told to have my hormone levels checked or anything. I was just told over the phone that my hcg levels indicated that I was in fact miscarrying and that was it. They never told me anything else about coming back in for follow up. The only way I figured I might be pregnant was because my "period" was kind of wierd. SO I took a hpt to see if I was maybe pregnant. If I would have never taken that pregnancy test I would have never known I was pregnant or miscarried. Sometimes I wish I wouldn't have taken that test. KWIM?

chloe&tysmommy replied: thank-you all so much for being so caring

I already feel better just reading your posts! You guys are the best! I'm going to rest for awhile until Chloe gets up from her nap but I'll be around later!

hugs, and thanks again for caring,

MommyToAshley replied: I'm soo sorry for your loss. Like you said, there is a reason for it, but it doesn't make it any easier. I wish I were there to give you a big hug.

Get some rest and be sure to let us know how you are doing. You're in my thoughts and prayers!

<<HUGS>>

Mommieto2Girls replied: I'm so sorry,

I agree, when you miscarry it was probley for the best, it always happens for a reason. I don't know what your going through but you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

coasterqueen replied: I am so sorry for your loss. I do not know what you are going thru, but I wanted to offer hugs, prayers and positive thoughts. I will be thinking of you. Please take care.

MomToJade&Jordan replied: I am so sorry for your loss. I had two m/cs myself and I know what a loss they can be. For my first one I was about 8 weeks along so I was admitted to the hospital and given a D & C. My second m/c was only after being abnout 4 weeks pg. I didn't have to have a D & C, but I did bleed a lot for the first couple of days. I did conceive Jade right after that second one and she just celebrated her 1st b-day. Get some rest and take it easy the next couple of days.

+Zemirah+ replied: Many hugs to you

paradisemommy replied: more for you. just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and here if you need us

Maddie&EthansMom replied: I am so sorry to hear that! Hope you feel better soon!

amynicole21 replied: I'm so sorry!! I wish I could do something for you I'm sending lots of to you. Hang in there!

ediep replied: I am so sorry for your loss. Try to take it easy, we are here if you need us.

chloe&tysmommy replied: Thank-you again ladies for being so supportive!
Big for you all!!!

And thanks for suggesting the ivillage site, I checked it out and they have a great board on miscarriage!!! Its nice to read about people that have went through similar experiences!!!
I feel so much better and thank-you all so much again

CantWait replied: I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm sure you'll be carrying another angel inside you real soon. Hugs to you

~CrazieMama~ replied: I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I just don't know what else to say, I am sorry.

Jamison'smama replied: So sorry, lots and lots of hugs to you.

natchie replied: am so sorry to hear what you have gone thru .. pls. stay strong and God bless

take care