stress levels... WOW!
mummy2girls wrote: Ok the countdown begins... less than 30 days left till the wedding. I can not believe I am going to be married! My stress levels are so high right now. I feel the bridezilla is coming out. I still have to get the alcohol permit, finish paying off Marcus's ring and he needs to pay off mine, Getting the centerpieces done for the tables. or at least things bought for the centerpieces:) Finish paying the cake lady, meet up with the caterer with my parents and go over prices and what we want, meet up with the flower person, get the insurance for the hall, gifts for the wedding party, figure out and finish program for wedding, meet up with the pastors, hall paid for and get the decorations needed for the hall, also get my dress, jennas dress, and the list flippin goes on and on and on. I have so little time guys to do this! I blinked and then almost threw up. Im excited though. So you guys will have to wait a whole week after the wedding to see pics:) I thought I would make you sweat! I booked our hotel for the honeymoon in montana. got an awesome price for 4 days and 3 nights!( 255.00) We booked online.. well i did. You know its just not fair... I have organized, budgetted and done all the running around for everything for the wedding and marcus has rented his tux and thats it.. and he wonders why im stressed! I didnt say the man was smart!  And is it fair that when we lady's get married we have to run around after the wedding to change everything to our new last name? So we have to run around getting the wedding done and then after for the name change. How is that fair? HUH?
lisar replied: BREATH!!!! It will all be worth the stress. And yes I dont think its fair that we have to do all the work, and then after the wedding we have to do more work for our names and stuff.
Calimama replied: Maybe you can ask Marcus to help? Some of it I'm sure he's very capable of handling. 
mummy2girls replied:
oh i know he is.. i ask and he says.. whatever you think is best. LOL...
luvbug00 replied:
Lot's to do and i'm sure you'll get it done in time.
my best friends fiancee was doing this "whatever honey" thing and she told him to help out or he might be gone. She flat out told him " if this is any indication on how confortable your gonna get feeling like you have me and sit on your bum when you get off work with me taking care of the household and kids then you can leave now." needless to say he is now in charge of the invitations and grooms men and cake lady. 
Kaitlin'smom replied: BREATH. it will all come together and yes get him to do something. deffinalty not fair we have to do it all. Bridezillas crack me up, I cant believe how some people act. I can waite to hear all about it.
mommymommy replied: Wow,
all that work will pay off though!
..plus it sounds like you are very organized!!
I hope your day goes perfectly( I'm sure it will)
Congrats!
grapfruit replied: Honey. I feel your pain. I have more time, but I still have:
Caterer to finish paying (It's about a 1/4 finished)
Flowers (haven't even started looking )
Dress fitting
EVERYONE'S dress needs altered
buy the decorations for the tables and hall
figure out what we want read during
programs
figure out transportation from to the church and then from church to hall
buy the kegs
buy more pop and water
nervous about the cake (a friend is doing it and her "test" cake turned out awful, she's going to try again - it melted the first time) 
SHOES! - Oh crap I haven't even thought about shoes!!!!!!!!
"gifts" for the wedding party
SONGS for the reception and ceramony
Oh please say I'm not forgetting something.....
It's so much work!!!!!
Ok, yeah now I'm REALLY feeling your pain. 
mckayleesmom replied: Isn't Rocky going to the wedding?...She can get us some sneak preview pictures... 
A&A'smommy replied: wow girl you have a LOT do but it will come together quckly!! I can't wait to see the pictures!!!
Calimama replied:
Smart guy.
julesmom replied: Enjoy it while it lasts, even the stressful parts. It'll be over before you know it. Then you'll miss all the excitement and rushing around.
mummy2girls replied:
Yes she is singing at my ceremony as well:)
~Roo'sMama~ replied: It's been five years but I remember that stress very well! There were lots of times we were both ready to say forget it and go elope.  And we had a really simple wedding.
It'll all work out ok.
doublebubble replied: Oh, I remeber. But once you make it through, it is all worth it!
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