the most selfish man in the world award - goes tooooo......

luvbug00 wrote: BRAD! he is the most selfish person in this entire world. if i were to sit and list all the things he does in the name of brad then we would be here for a LONG time! the man just changed phone services AGAIN and with it he is getting blackberry and his gf getting a riser. I told him if i found out he spent just ONE PENNY i would personaly beat the ____ out of him. Because in the last 2 weeks i have shelled out over $250 for his daughters school/soccer and nessesities ( which i don't mind of course it's my responcibility and i am proud to do it) and he has donated NOTHING! he's such a *****! ( can i say that?? if not sorry please edit) I can't stand this ignorance from him. I wish he would just sign over his rights and mya could be mine.

Calimama replied: Does he have to pay child support? If not I'd take him to court. Mya is BOTH of your children it's not fair that you pay everything and he pays when it's convenient.

luvbug00 replied: He pays $150 every two weeks and that is usualy late and somtimes he doesn't pay all of it. Like if i ask him to get somthing he takes it out of the $150. I HAVE to use it for rent so basically it does nothing. I am changing jobs and so hopefull i can gradually cut him out compleately

holley79 replied: That is crazy. I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. My mom just totally ignored her ex.

gr33n3y3z replied: take him to court

moped replied: Just keep track of all this to be safe

grapfruit replied:
I agree, documentation is everything.

And I also agree. Anything Mya needs should be over and ABOVE the $150.

redchief replied: Shoot... And I thought I was the world's most selfish man. Guess I'm not working little enough.

A&A'smommy replied: I'm sorry honey I hope he gets his act together SOON!!!

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied:
I am praying for you that it comes to this.

luvbug00 replied: I try and document as much as i can. Lars has been very helpful with this . I also try and keep conversations via e-mail to document what he says and all texts he sends me i send to my e-mail and save there. I would take him to court but i really am scared they will award him more coustody or somthing. I really am not comfortorbale taking him until I know my situation will blow his credibility out of the water. KWIM.

Kaitlin'smom replied: court deffinalty and was a PITA, he should NOT be taking out money spent on HIS daughter from the 150 thats just awful.

Hillbilly Housewife replied: NO no no no no. That's just not right. Chlid supprt and other expenses are different. He needs to pay the 150$ every 2 weeks (is that what's mandated for his earnings, or is that just an agreed on amount between you two?) and then extraordinary expenses like sports, dentists, schooling etc should be split down the middle between you two, not counting the 300$ a month he pays you. Because it's not "necessities", but it is child related expenses.

luvbug00 replied: as agreed by us is the 300. but It's doing SQUAT. I'm just waiting till i know i can over throw him in court to make any big move.

grapfruit replied: Nadia,

I don't know if this can help you any. They don't go through the court system. So custody shouldn't change (I imagine). I didn't look too hard into it, but I did notice "no upfront fees"

Cyndi said she's heard commercials for it all over TV and radio. I suppose if the "fees" aren't too high, it maybe worth it in the long run....

grapfruit replied: Also just thinking, even if you're not eligible for their services, they may be able to give you some advise/information on the situation.