they are preg.

luvbug00 wrote: Brad and his dumb gf are preg.


I'm going to see my layer again and right now i'm looking at round $400 in child support and 18,000 in back child support. Humm Try affording a baby on that!!!! HAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!

Brads car.. 600 a month
Brad townhouse....1600 a month
Brad having to move back home because he owes me out the ying yang....Priceless

mummy2girls replied: OOOh Nadia I know that feeling when they first announce it. I felt it with Aron. If Aron didnt pay me child support already then i would of done the same. So when does teh child support take affect?

Calimama replied:
Sorry that was funny. Anyway I can't believe he owes you that much!! That's crazy!!

A&A'smommy replied:
That was funny!!!


Honey I'm sorry, I hope he gets smart and starts sending the child support!!!

MommyToAshley replied: I think it is absurd that he hasn't taken responsibility and paid child support. I would definitely follow through with all the legal action you can to ensure he pays what is owed.

luvbug00 replied:

not yet. the $18,000 is the estimated amount but it should be alot more. it doesn't include her past childcare which is well over a grand and birth expences which was 10,000 ( that my parents paid orgininally). they just got a soni done. I haven't seen it and Mya said it was small.

BUT the BEST part of all is Mya doesn't even care! we asked if she was excited and she just started playing with the dog and doing other things. that was a HUGE relief of mine.

Brad is digging himself a nice little hole ,not to mention he let mya ride in a car with his sisters bf (18) to chuckie cheese with no adult supervision..I'm taking that one to court and that should look pretty bad for him. which i was livid about!

mummy2girls replied:
Nadia I felt that way with Jenna at first. But then i thought that if Jenna does get happy then she has every right to be as the baby will be her half sibling. I know what you mean though nadia.. I wanted to give jenna her first( well i did..Jordan) sibling and I wanted her to be excited to see me preggo. And i was so worried that the excitement will wear off when i get preggo because she experienced that with her dad and Gf but you know jenna is always begging me to have a baby in my tummy so when i do get preggo she will love it.

I know its hard and will be hard to hear when Mya says.. the baby did this, i felt the baby kick etc etc etc but remember you cant let on you are not happy because that baby will be her sister or brother... Plus i think it will be a better excitement when your pregant vs the gf pregnant because she lives with you! She will experience it waaay more! Thats how im looking at it with my pregnancy and Jenna!

(((HUGS)))

bawoodsmall replied:
Even though the situation sucks that was hilarious. I dont think his girlfriend will be too excited when she realizes he wont have any money.

MoonMama replied:

Nadia I don't even no what to say!

luvbug00 replied:

thanks girl, i needed those words of advice.

kimberley replied: sorry he's being a butthead. i hope he starts paying and straightening out for that baby and mya's sake. only advice i have for you, no matter what happens, please don't blame the baby. i have a half brother who is 5mos older than me and my mom did all she could to keep us from knowing each other. really lousy and still strains our relationship years later.

hang in there hon.

mummy2girls replied:
I agree:) Jenna loves her brother and talks about him all the time! I dont want to take that away from her i want her to row up knowing him and being close to him:) AND it took chase being born and him experiencing everything with his early times to make realize he was a butt with jenna. and he is starting ot take her more and have sleep overs and such:)

mummy2girls replied:
Your welcome.. if you have any questions im here:)

My2Beauties replied: I'm so sorry to hear that. Boy I hope he starts paying his child support ASAP..nothing I hate more than someone who doesn't help out the mother of their chidlren

lisar replied: Oh Naida I know how you feel. My ex owes me about $25,000.00 in back support and I havent see a check from him in about 6 months now. The system here in Florida SUCKS!!!!!

Crystalina replied:
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! I almost peed my pants with that one. That was soo funny Nadia.