vent - ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
mckayleesmom wrote: Has anyone ever had a friend find out they were pregnant and just milk it for all it was worth? lol...My only friend here just found out she was pregnant on thursday night. This girl is probably about 2 weeks pregnant..Im not kidding either. She hasn't been to the doctors yet, but has an appointment. I know she can only be 2 weeks cause she thought she was pregnant 3 weeks ago and after she started she had her annual pap done. Well already she is driving me nuts,,and her husband according to my husband. She is already complaining about morning sickness, cramps, nausia, her hips spreading..The other day were at the mall and she kept asking me if I got little cramps here or there or here or there. I finally told her it was in her head. LOL...Her husband already told my husband that shes driving him nuts, she told him that from now on he had to do the laundry cause it was bad for the baby, and they went out to eat the other night and she said that the "baby" didn't like the food. Tonight I told her I wanted to go buy stuff for breakfast and she all of the sudden got nasious at the mention of breakfast food...LOL...She told me about a book that I should read called A Child Called It...I told her I had already read it along time ago along with the sequel so its a good thing she didn't buy it for me. She told me that she would have read it herself but she didn't think that being "preggo" it would be good for the baby...I don't know if anyone else has read that , but I don't think it would effect anyone besides emotionally realizing what that kid went through. Then whenever we go out she always buys mckaylee little toys and one time she bought her an outfit..The one she wore in the pictures I had done...Well she told me if she has a girl that she wants it back....She didn't even say it in question form,,,If I gave someone something I would ask if they minded if I could have it for my little girl...KWIM? AWWWWW shes going to drive me insane and she is my only friend here.......Also when we went to the mall she went to talk to a lady she use to work for and she showed her the pregnancy tests she took and asked what she thought (Yes,,she carrys them in her purse) and the lady looked at them and was smiling,,,well I don't know if she got mad cause the lady didn't respond fast enough or what but she looked at her and said "well,,,arn't you going to congratulate me?" I almost passed out...I just can't believe how she thinks she is the center of the world. Anyways,,,I just needed to vent...This is going to be a long 9 months. Am I overreacting. My husband said we would be divorced if I acted like her...She is sometimes like this not pregnant...And she is so rude and mean to her husband too. We went out to dinner one night and she told her husband that he could not have a beer or he was walking home. My husband asked her how old her husband was and if it was ok if he made his own decision. If you ask me she has alot of nerve to tell her husband hes walking home, when only recently she got a job.. and he pays for everything. She refused to get a job at all before.
This is funny too....Her husband sold his truck and they bought a new car..Well one day her dh and my dh were driving down the road and saw his old truck,,My husband told him that he should stop the guy...Her dh asked why he should stop him...my husband told him to ask the guy if he could get his balls back out of the glove compartment....They were cracking up,,,
A&A'smommy replied: omg wow your friend is insane!!! I dont know if could be friends with someone like that although one of my friends thinks she needs to have a baby when she is 17 and her fiance is 18 and has yet to even try to keep a steady job plus he dropped out of school. She is the same way about the "symtoms" every month before her period she had "pregnancy symtoms" and then she gets her period! Im sorry your going to have a long nine months i can see where you needed to vent!!!!!!!
MommyToAshley replied: It sounds like your friend was a little high strung even before her PG and being PG tends to amplify emotions... Here's a few hugs to get you through the next nine months! 
mckayleesmom replied: shes a hypocondriac (SP?) 3 weeks ago when she thought she was pregnant she brought her tests over to show me,,,Nothing,,,i told her I didn't see anything and she kept showing me a little invisible line she swore was there...I finally had to agree with her because she would get pissed if I didn't. Shes mainly like this about medical stuff. She claims to have everything..Bipolar,,etc,,,She is ok alot of the times. Just crazy when it comes to medical stuff. Or being completely rude and bossy to her husband. I feel bad for him. He is the nicest guy, and she is such a witch to him. Im honestly waiting for him to snap and divorce her cause most men would. One day her husband and mind had orders to help their new station comander move stuff into his new house...she got mad cause they were later then they said. She called him and told him if he wasn't home in a half an hour that she was dead bolting the door and going to bed,,,good luck getting in. And my husband had already called and told me why they were running late. so I called and told her,,she didn't care. But the next day I asked her if she let him in,,,she said oh yeah he explained why they were late..SO DID I, and she didn't care..Its like she just has to have something to *&^%$ about all the time. She' s the same one I told you guys about that spends all their money. A couple weeks ago she spent their last 70 dollars on her hair getting colored..It was a priority? Im lucky if I spend money to get my hair cut.
DansMom replied:
You have a "high maintenance" friend  Mommy to Ashley is right, you'll need some extra hugs to get through the next nine months!
CantWait replied: That is too funny what your dh said lmbo. And what a tirant your friend is, she makes it hard for women who really are suffering during their pregnancy. 
coasterqueen replied: Does sound like she is a bit high maintenance. Was she trying to get pg for a long time? I could see being "overly" excited if you tried for a long time and finally got your wish, kwim? But anyways, sounds like you are going to needs LOTS of to get you thru the next 9 months.
Maddie&EthansMom replied: ROTFL!!  I am so sorry this is your only friend there. She sounds psycho. I would be pulling my hair out!! I just can't believe she is so blunt. I don't mean to sound so rude, I promise. Here are some more hugs to help you get through this. Is this the same friend you told about this site???
Guest replied: Me and her get along fine really...But one week she will be mello and the next week she is a wack job...They had decided not to have kids while they were stationed here. Then they changed their mind when they were here on the 4th of July. Her husband really really wanted kids and she would flat out tell him no really rudely,,then I almost passed out when he said he wanted a baby on the 4th of July and she agreed. Thats just how she is...says one thing one minute,,,changes her mind the next.
mckayleesmom replied: That was me sorry....lol
paradisemommy replied: wow - i really feel sorry for her husband because she sounds like a handful - but i feel sorry for you too for having to put up with her crap..i think i would be biting my tongue until one day when i would just snap. 
to her....and
to you... 
i think it's time for you to find another friend 
amynicole21 replied: Honestly, I am all for being blunt in situations like this. Remind her that she is not the first woman in all the world to be pregnant, and that she needs to chill out!! It sucks that she's your only friend there... you don't want to lose her. But why do you and the rest of the world have to put up with that??? Ugh!
ediep replied:
I agree...
Also remind her that it is very early in her pregnancy and is she sure that she wants to tell the world yet??? Some people view that as bad luck
Hillbilly Housewife replied: Ask her if she's lost her plug yet... heh heh
mummy2girls replied: OMG!!! i know what you are feeling. when i was preg with my first 4 years ago my friend was pregnant too. She had to be the center of attention in everything!she freaked over every little cramp and movement and was at the doctors so much! i went through a scarey spina bifada scare and our friends were helping me get through iot and she couldnt handle that so she would make up fake health problems..like the baby being breach and she needs a c-section. we knew it was a lie because every week the baby was in breach then not in breach back to being breach..UGH!!!! then she even went further and faked a emergency hospital stay and losing her mucus plug and leaking amniotic fluid 3 months early. We believed her at first but knew it was a lie because when she went into labour she still had her mucus plug. Her husband works out of town alot and towards the end of her pregnancy she wanted him to stay home and he couldnt because he is the head honchop and needs to be there for the jobs and such,only a medical emergency can let him go . So she told him she was dialated 3 cm 1 month early. But when she actually went into labor she was only 1 cm when they checked her. (she must of shrinked cm's). I then had to get induced early because of havinf toxemia and she could handle that so she made up another medical emerg.
the worst of this all was when my son was in the PICU and was on life support(when we found out he was dieing) she could nopt handle the fact i was the center of attention and my son was too (she was 7 months preggo at this time) so she had a hissy fit ran off and nobody could find her. She even faked being in labor!!UGH! needless to say she is not my friend anymore.
she even was horrible to her DH also. he was a nice guy but she yelled at him put him down and everything!!!!!!
Guest replied: She just instant messaged me just now asking if I knew a remedy for morning sickness. I took great pleasure in telling her there isn't any. She said that its just so bad,,especially in the mornings when she has to go to work....boo hoo....I hate to tell her, but its in her head, I did tell her that she should wait till the 2nd trimester to start complaining. Thats when the real morning sickness kicks in. I think she is trying to weasle her way into quiting her job.
mckayleesmom replied: That was me again.......keeps logging me out. 
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