we need a "men suck!!" forum - he's on a frikin roll!!!

jolene555 wrote: well, barry's been quite an @##hole since he's under all this stress of finding a job and moving and such. i'm sorry that he's stressed, but i am too and that's no reason to treat me like shat.

he left me home alone to go get intoxicated once already this week. it would not have been so bad if i didn't know that the guy, whose house he went to, does crack on a regular basis and get's frequent police visits. i am not ready to deal with him getting arrested.

despite how upset i was last time, and that i have been feeling like crap all day due to af cramps and headaches, he decided to go out again. georgia is in an awful streak due to her teething, and i cannot believe he left me alone!!! he's such an @##hole sometimes!!! he said he'd bring me home some chocolate, but i doubt that anyplace will be open when he's done at 2 am!!!

good part is that georgia has been really good for me since he left (i am guessing she was picking up on my utter annoyance and was reacting to it), so we've been cuddling up in blankets and reading her books for over an hour. she is currently emptying the laundry basket (her favorite passtime). i'm thinking of making myself a drink so i don't bite his head off when he returns . . . too bad i don't have any sangria

A&A'smommy replied: you poor thing!! (((HUGS))) I don't even know what to tell you!

MommyToAshley replied: I am sorry your DH is being such a bonehead. I know it must be hard for him right now, but it is still no excuse for the way he is treating his family. I hope he realizes this SOON!

Isa's Mom replied: I have no real good advise (except I would definetely have that drink) Just big ((hugs)) for you

mama3x replied: With me and my pg hormones going, I'd probably kick his a**. Or just lock him out so he can't come in...

I am so sorry that he's being such a bonehead, I do hope he shapes up.

I am glad however that Georgia is being a sweetie for you.

favre4fan replied: oh no sweety I am so sorry , men can be such butts sometimes!!

jolene555 replied: unfortunately the drink never happened. he is currently 2 hours later than he said he would be, and if he hadn't taken MY car (it's raining and his tires are not too good) i would be going to my folk's. i called his cell at an hour late and he "didn't want to talk" and i heard his croneys in the backround yelling "p****whipped!!". that really ticks me off. these "friends" of his are now on my sh*t list.

A&A'smommy replied:
OMG what jerks!!!! I think you need to set some ground rules!!! and there is absolutly NOTHING wrong with being "whipped"

redchief replied: Pretty crappy...

I try not to suck on a regular basis though. Further, I try to be sensitive to my DW's needs. I wasn't always such. I learned how to do that. I'm not even sure how I learned it, other than it probably had to do with hunger and a cold bed. I just don't think a man-bashing forum will help in any real way.

Even so, I'm still a bonehead sometimes

darrylswifeskylersmom replied: hey hunnie!!
sorry your upset!
**HUGS****

Kirstenmumof3 replied: Just wanted to send some (((HUGS))) your way!

Littlejojames replied:


Craigs mates are the same but why do our partners seem to fall for it and make out were in the wrong???

What on earth is it with men??? Are they stupid, they all seem to be playing up around this time of year and then when it gets to summer it happens all over again??? Sometimes there only good for one thing

Josie83 replied: I'm sorry . . . vent on here as much as you like xx

MomToMany replied: I'm sorry he did that to you. I'd be extremely upset as well. He needs a good kick in the rear! But not all men suck. I'm defending the good men on our board, since Loveydad's post made me realize how unfair we were being to them.

Boys r us replied: Uhhh I like to think that Rick and I are equal in our marriage and both hold the same weight, in other words, I don't try to boss him around...and likewise he doesn't boss me around...BUT..STOP THE FREAKING PRESS..he's going to hang out with a guy who does freaking CRACK and has been arrested from it????????
Uhh I'd have to put my foot down! Tell him to stay his @$$ at home or make some new friends!

amInormal replied: <_<hey there, sounds like he shares the same problem I have in my DH
he is totally selfish and into his own selfish needs. self centered and self fish.
try suttle things to make you feel better like itching powder in the shorts!!! I did!