welli t's just about 4am...

Hillbilly Housewife wrote: and we just got home. DH is driving the sitter and her bf home. He came home just after midhinght to get more booze... and the sitter and her bf were not in the basement, nor on the main floor... and our bedroom door was closed.

um....happy new year?!

Good thing she's family...her arse would be FIRED!

PrairieMom replied: O M G

I think I would fire her anyway. how old is she?

amynicole21 replied: LOL! Did you change the sheets?

AlexsPajamaMama replied:

CantWait replied:

mom2my2cuties replied: Oh boy...I hope you changed the sheets before bed Guess they had a party of thier own.

Calimama replied: Ewwwwwwwwwww.

Anthony275 replied: thats disgusting

luvmykids replied: EW!

Hillbilly Housewife replied: Hmm. Reading this again this morning I don't think it's so funny.

Yes, I'd changed the sheets before bed... and she's going to be 15 in February.

She's lucky my mom and her dad are in Mexico.

Anthony275 replied: she's 14?! that makes it even worse

Hillbilly Housewife replied: To her defense... she never really acts like a 14 year old. She's extremely mature... she compensates a little bit for her 20 year old sister, who is delayed to about the age of 12. She takes very good care of her... does things like re-arrange her shirt when she's showing too much cleavage, helps her shave her armpits, common sense stuff like telling her to "put the milk back in the fridge"

Most of her friends are 17, generally a good kid, no drugs, no drinking etc...

None of my business about her sex life... i just didn't really want to have to deal with it in my bed, ya know?

Cece00 replied: I would fire her anyway. She's supposed to be babysitting your kids, not f****** her boyfriend.

We use a sitter and she IS NOT allowed to have friends over, let alone her BF. And having sex IN MY BED?

OH no.

Gross. 14 yr olds shouldnt be having sex anyway, but in your bed? That is just rude and bad behavior for a person of ANY age.

HuskerMom replied: I'd be sooo mad! Especially if it was my bed, that's disgusting.

lovemy2 replied: I wouldn't care if she was 30 I would be pissed and since she is only 14 I would be calling her Mom - that is nuts

Danalana replied: ^^^Ditto.

Calimama replied:
14!?

luvmykids replied:
yup

A&A'smommy replied: omg she is so young!!!!

and

MAJOR EW!!!!

Bamamom replied:
Put me on the bandwagon^^^^^^^^^

Our Lil' Family replied: I vividly remember a babysitter of mine once having a neighborhood boy over and I saw things I should not have seen, at about 7 or 8 years old. For that reason, I will NEVER allow a babysitter to have anyone over while she is alone with my child(ren). I'm not naive to think that they can't still let people over (just as my sitter did) without me knowing, but I will not willingly allow it.

Sorry Rocky, I'm sure you're in a tough situation now.