Pinch me! LOL

mummy2girls wrote: I was talking with grant again tonight:) and we started to flirt with each other...well more him than me. We got into renting a movie and if we should... and he said that because i have jenna 99 percent of the time and always at night he suggested him renting a movie and bringing it to my place, and we snuggle together watching while jenna is comfy in her own bed. His son Aidan is with his ex one week and then him one week. so the week that he doesnt have him he will do this... AWWW how sweet is that?

I can tell with him that he is in this for a real relationship and not one for *Boom Boom* LOL. he wants to develop a strong relationship that is much more than just *you know what*.... Aron was so much the opposite. he couldnt talk to me for more than 2 seconds without suggesting we *have fun*

Can this be the one? we will see!

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: I am so excited for you! DH and I rented the Incredibles last night, threw a bunch of pillows on the floor in the basement (our new furniture isn't here yet), and snuggled. It was the highlight of my week!

Have fun...but be careful too!

mammag replied: Aww, how sweet! He sounds like a romantic!

gr33n3y3z replied: I hope everything works out for you

Celestrina replied: He sounds wonderful! Sometimes a good snuggle is as good and a night of pure passion.

kimberley replied: i really hope everything works out for you, Shelly. but i have to say be careful! i really shouldn't watch these stupid shows, but montel had a show yesterday about girls who were hurt/tortured by guys they met online. they thought they were being safe, but it obviously wasn't enough. the thought of snuggling and renting a movie is sweet and appealing, but are you sure you want a big, strange man in your apartment with Jenna there? if you do this, make sure you have his info (phone number address, etc) and that someone knows when he is there. maybe have mom give a "checking in" call shortly after he comes. i really hope for the best in all of this. you deserve it!

mummy2girls replied:
kimberely i wouldnt invite him over quite yet. I am going to meet him and go out in public dateing for a bit before i trust him to come over to my place. I just found it really sweet! LOL... Dont worry girls i will be very careful!

A&A'smommy replied: hehe lol I told you so!!! I'm so happy for you girl!!!

mysweetpeasWil&Wes replied: Yeah, I couldn't sleep last night because I was thinking about you. Sorry. It worried me a bit. I'm such a MOMMY!! Sounds like you got it under control, but I would wait long before inviting him over. Plus, I would have his kid come too. I was thinking last night...well maybe this guy doesn't really have a kid. Maybe he's just saying that and that's why the kid will be with the other mom when they meet. Did I read that wrong??? Sorry to sound like I'm bursting your bubble. I really hope it works out for you!!! He sounds like a great great guy. But this internet stuff is starting to scare me...someone on the board here had a post about fakes. I think it was erased, but it really got me thinking. Why would someone come here and fake being a parent?? I guess it could happen...ick.

moped replied: Ahhh Shelley - this sounds great - I am hoping this is it for you - please keep us posted!!!!!

3_call_me_mama replied: Hope it works out fo ryou Shelley! Go with your gut and just be safe as you would on any date. What would you do if you met this guy say at a grocery store? or in a bar? or at the library? Personally I wouldn't treat someone I met online any differently than someone I met in person after the initial public meeting. Cause in all reality, a person that you meet in the store could lie to you and be totally different than they claimed once you either went to their place or they to yours. I know the internet can be scary, but so can dating in general. AN di think that online relationship oftne get a bad rap because of the sole fact that two people that have never met face to face start a friendship that leads to more. UMMMM>>>> did anyon eever have a penpal when they were younger?! Same thing just taking th efriendship one step further. IMO>

DVFlyer replied: Good for you! Don't take it too seriously. "The one" relationship could take quite a while to develop. Just have fun and go day by day. If it's meant to happen, you'll know. If not, you had some good times and shared experiences.

Wishing you luck.